If you know Tim Hartley, you know he is one of the proudest fans and alums of Washington State University. He is a Coug through and through! Come mid-August though, he might start cheering for the Texas Tech Red Raiders. Why, you ask? Because it looks like his new kidney is coming from one of their alums.

Yes!!! We are thrilled to let everyone know that we have an officially approved living kidney donor and a surgery date set for August 19. We are elated, relieved, humbled and filled with joy.

Who’s the donor, you ask? It’s our long-time friend Dana Anderson. We first met Dana about 20 years ago through First Presbyterian Church in Norman. Dana, her husband Chuck, and their little toddler Chase became friends of ours. And when they welcomed their son Mark a few years later, I remember taking dinner to their home and celebrating this new life with them.

We’ve shared our faith as members of the same church family and had lots of fun together through the years. We’ve traded vacation tips, driven Volvos, shared meals and stimulating conversation, and we’ve watched each other’s kids grow up. I guess it’s now time for a new adventure together.

Dana (left) and I are members of a women’s small group through our church. Matching isn’t new to Dana. At our April meeting, she and our friend Jean Leidner were dressed alike!

It’s really hard to put into words all the emotions we’re feeling. I know she has been through months of tests and screenings. I know how she has had to anxiously wait for the next call or email to see if she “passed.” I know how invested she has become in the chance to help another person she cares about. She is the kind of friend everyone would be blessed to have.

This story is different than what we first thought it would be. In some ways, it’s an even better story. I get to be the caretaker for my husband. (Maybe it’s time for payback for after I broke my leg skiing over six years ago.)I think I’m equally excited about helping coordinate meals, care and support for Dana.

The next two months will include much anticipation for both our families. We are so excited to share the good news with all of you and covet your prayers for Dana, Tim and both our families. Tim and I began this journey in March of 2018 with an orientation session at Integris. Since then, you’ve heard about our highs and lows. Thank you for your encouragement and support. And a special message of love to those of you who expressed interest in becoming a possible donor, called the transplant center, completed the medical packet and were placed on the list. Every text, call, email, post and hug keeps us hopeful and filled with faith.